Showing posts with label rethinking. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rethinking. Show all posts

Tuesday, 20 October 2020

Defining moments

It's always revealing when you ask someone what were the defining moments in their life - the things that made a huge impression on them, or set them on a totally new path in life, or caused them to radically rethink something.

If you asked me what were the defining moments or events in my own life, I would come up with the following:

  • Meeting Jenny when my life was somewhat stalled. We've achieved so many things together and had such amazing experiences.
  • My first English teacher, John Fraser, who gave me a love of the English language and linguistic skills that were a lasting asset job-wise.
  • My school friend David who gave me a copy of the Communist Manifesto and prompted a life-long belief in socialism and an egalitarian society.
  • My first bookshop job and the immediate feeling that this was something I could enjoy doing for many years. Which I did.
  • Buying our present house. For a long time we assumed we could never afford a house, but circumstances conspired to make it possible. This is our second house and it ticks all the boxes!
  • My first trip to Australia. It was extraordinary landing in Hobart and being on the other side of the world in such a spectacular country.
  • Moving from my cold and spartan bedsit in Abbey Road, London, my home for 6½ years, to a slightly better bedsit.
  • Moving from London to Belfast. We both liked Northern Ireland and decided to take a massive gamble, ditch our existing jobs and move there. It's been a big success and we've never regretted our decision.
  • Hearing that my tiny trace of prostate cancer had vanished of its own accord.
  • Retiring from paid employment 2½ years ago after 53 years of working. I don't miss work and I'm having a great time.
Will there be more defining moments? Who knows what the future will bring?