Saturday, 4 April 2026

Past and present

I'm not generally nostalgic for some overall period in my past. But I do look back at the past in a divided fashion, partly remembering things I'd like to return to but also remembering things I absolutely wouldn't want to return to.

Things I'd like to return to:

  • When you could just talk to someone about a problem and sort it out, without having to go online and negotiate some complicated website.
  • Jobs filled on a more casual basis and not needing lengthy application forms.
  • Property prices being affordable. And rental fees not being extortionate.
  • Plenty of council homes for people who needed a home.
  • Having most of what you needed within walking distance of your home. No hard-to-reach shopping centres and little need of cars.
  • Food that was nutritious and healthy, and less ultra-processed food.
Things I definitely wouldn't like to return to:

  • Rampant misogyny which was usually shrugged off as harmless banter or "just the way things are".
  • Phone boxes and exorbitant long-distance calls.
  • Widespread discrimination against single mothers.
  • Pervasive homophobia.
  • Laborious searches for information, before Google arrived.
  • Washing by hand, before washing machines were invented.
I guess most people have the same sort of divided memories.

13 comments:

  1. I miss public transportation. I used to be able to get a city bus to downtown by walking 2-3 blocks to a bus stop. Now, the nearest bus stop is more than a 1/2 mile away and the buses only run during rush hours.
    Linda

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    1. Linda: Public transport is excellent in Belfast but pretty non-existent in a lot of rural areas.

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    2. Our village bus comes once a day

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    3. Ole phat Stu: That's ridiculous. And the government wants us to use public transport and not cars. What world are they living in?

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  2. The days when there was no corporate double talk were pretty good

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    1. Kylie: I agree. Big businesses that maintain they're benefitting the community when actually they're just looking for bigger profits.

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  3. I miss lower US postal rates and the times when people would actually send cards and letters instead of texts and emails.

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    1. Beatrice: Postage rates here have been going up and up to levels that make you think twice about sending a letter or a card. And yes, I'd like to receive more letters, especially hand-written ones.

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  4. Things being affordable is my biggest one. When I moved into my apartment 27 years ago, I was paying $375 a month. Now it's $1000 a month.

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    1. Mary: I see today's equivalent of $375 is $735 to $750. So somebody's being super-greedy.

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  5. Yes, the excuse of "harmless banter" is used so often to get misogynist men off the hook.

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    1. Valerie: Likewise "just a bit of fun" and "can't men say anything any more"?

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  6. I miss people not being on their phones 24/7.

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