If
writers can only create their master-pieces by being thoroughly selfish and
mistreating their family and friends, is that a necessary price to pay or would
they be better off writing less and being more likable?
An
article today points out that although James Joyce wrote brilliant novels
that are acclaimed all over the world, as an individual he was quite
unpleasant. His wife Nora is said to have described him as weak and neurotic,
ruining her life, drinking too much and squandering money he constantly cadged off
other people.
The
private lives of many other writers and artists have turned out to be equally unappealing
and hard for others to cope with. Behind the glossy public image there is often
a less savoury tale of long-suffering spouses and domestic mayhem.
It’s
standard practice to play down their shocking personal behaviour and insist
that it’s the necessary downside to works of genius that will be feted for
centuries to come. In any case, their dissatisfied partners are always free to
walk out and find someone more attractive.
There
again, it can be argued that they just happen to be inadequate individuals, and
their objectionable traits have nothing to do with being writers or artists. They
could stop writing tomorrow, and still be a total pain in the arse. In fact
their frustrated desire to write might make them even more obnoxious.
If
they stopped writing, maybe they would just take up some other all-consuming
interest that would make them just as selfish and just as careless about other
people’s needs.
Some
people would even suggest that their flawed private lives make their creative
output more interesting. Doesn’t a book written by a notorious philanderer and
drug-addict have more of a frisson than one written by a polite, neatly-dressed
tea-drinker? And isn’t it impressive that they even managed to write these
extraordinary books despite all their personal failings?
At
the end of the day, I guess it’s simply a question of what others are willing
to put up with. If their nearest and dearest are prepared to suffer all manner
of indignities and mistreatment in the name of public esteem and a
distinguished artistic legacy, then who is to say they shouldn’t? Is it any
concern of ours?
Picture courtesy of the Missouri Review, University of Missouri
Picture courtesy of the Missouri Review, University of Missouri

