nickhereandnow

"Sorry for being me, I don't know how to be anyone else" - Spike Milligan

Sunday, 28 July 2024

Inside out

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People say that if you've been married to someone for many years you know them inside out. You know how they'll react to any given s...
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Tuesday, 23 July 2024

Moaning and groaning

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As yet I haven't morphed into the typical grumpy old man. I still look on the bright side and take problems in my stride rather than moa...
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Thursday, 18 July 2024

Not sentimental

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I'm not very sentimental, if that means I get highly emotional over things that have played a significant part in my life, things that h...
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Sunday, 14 July 2024

Jerry built

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I can't imagine what it's like to move into what seems a perfect new home, only to find it's been jerry-built, it's full of ...
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Wednesday, 10 July 2024

Eccentric, moi?

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When I was a boy, people were commonly seen as "eccentric" and such individuals stuck out a mile for their eccentricity - meaning ...
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Saturday, 6 July 2024

Give me fame

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I always say that I wouldn't like to be famous, that I would hate the constant attention, I would hate being judged and found wanting, I...
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Tuesday, 2 July 2024

Before smartphones

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I was astonished to read that 91 per cent of 11 year olds have a smart phone, and 20 per cent of children own them by the age of four. A lot...
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Thursday, 27 June 2024

City says no

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Jenny and I are trying to rewild one of our small lawns, without much success. Instead of lots of pretty wild flowers, we're just gettin...
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Saturday, 22 June 2024

Too many friends

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There are plenty of people who feel lonely and short of close friends. But spare a thought for those people who're so addicted to collec...
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Tuesday, 18 June 2024

Beyond the pale

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One thing that's totally beyond my comprehension is how people can go on supporting a public figure or a workmate or a spouse even if th...
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Friday, 14 June 2024

Judging and misjudging

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I had a sudden thought - what's the most important lesson I've learnt in life? Something that completely changed my outlook from the...
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Monday, 10 June 2024

Woe is me

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"Beware self-pity", my father used to tell me, "It runs in the family". His warning struck home and I've been on my ...
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Tuesday, 4 June 2024

Burnt out and disillusioned

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I've never been the slightest bit ambitious. I never wanted to "get to the top". I just wanted to have enjoyable jobs that cam...
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Friday, 31 May 2024

The portal

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Two days ago Jenny and I were in Dublin to see the Royal Hibernian Academy's annual art exhibition - and the controversial Dublin-New Yo...
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Monday, 27 May 2024

Lots of kids

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As someone who has never had any desire for children, I'm intrigued by the American Pronatalist Movement, which wants people to have as ...
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Wednesday, 22 May 2024

Silence or chatter?

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A surprising number of people hate chatting to their hairdresser. They find it so tedious and unnecessary they would rather not talk at all ...
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Saturday, 18 May 2024

What is love?

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It occurs to me that love means different things depending on what age you are. In particular what it means to a youngster is not what it me...
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Tuesday, 14 May 2024

Reckless males

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Once again it's revealed that male drivers are far more likely to have serious accidents than female drivers. It seems they're more ...
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Friday, 10 May 2024

Brighton

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So all is revealed! Jenny and I paid a six-day visit to Brighton, a seaside resort neither of us had been to for decades. Despite the usual ...
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Wednesday, 1 May 2024

A short intermission

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I'll be back soon. Meanwhile here's a selfie.  
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I've known my partner Jenny for over 44 years. Now retired, I was previously a journalist, bookseller, charity worker and office administrator. I enjoy the company of my partner and friends but I'm not a wild socialiser. I love walking in the country and just quietly reflecting on life. Disillusioned with living in London, Jenny and I moved to Belfast in 2000. We're still in Belfast and we think it's a fabulous city.
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