nickhereandnow

"Sorry for being me, I don't know how to be anyone else" - Spike Milligan

Sunday, 30 October 2022

Falling chimney

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Two of you asked me for more details of the falling chimney that almost finished me off. I was a child at the time (not sure what age). I ca...
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Wednesday, 26 October 2022

Question time

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It's a long time since I did a Question and Answer, so I thought I'd do another one. Respectable questions only of course, nothing t...
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Friday, 21 October 2022

Casual fling

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One thing that's changed for the better during my lifetime is clothing etiquette. Clothing was much more formal when I was young, but ov...
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Monday, 17 October 2022

Retired and annoyed

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I tend to get annoyed when someone asks how my retirement is going, and I'm trying to work out why. I think it's because either they...
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Thursday, 13 October 2022

Will trickster

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Wills are normally dealt with behind closed doors and out of the public eye. It's generally assumed that the will was properly dealt wit...
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Sunday, 9 October 2022

Doodle house

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Would you be happy to live in a house that's covered with doodles from top to bottom? With not a single square inch left uncovered - doo...
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Wednesday, 5 October 2022

Petty peeves

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There are the major annoyances that drive you crazy. Then there are the petty irritations that niggle at you but are more or less endurable....
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Saturday, 1 October 2022

Trigger puzzle

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I don't understand how the TV companies decide on trigger warnings. They give frequent warnings about things that seem trivial, but igno...
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Tuesday, 27 September 2022

Crumbling respect

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The respect for authority figures that was the norm when I was growing up has gradually crumbled over the years. Crumbled so far in fact tha...
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Thursday, 22 September 2022

Being offended

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The big feature of cancel culture (aka polarisa-tion) is that it puts "being offended" into a whole new context. "Being offen...
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Sunday, 18 September 2022

Believe it or not

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It never ceases to amaze me how people will believe not only the unlikely but the clearly impossible. Even if other people pick a hundred ho...
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Wednesday, 14 September 2022

Tact shortage

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Tact. "Skill and sensitivity in dealing with others or with difficult issues". A word that isn't used much these days, but per...
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Saturday, 10 September 2022

Ready to go

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One thing Jenny and I have never dared to do is take on a "fixer-upper" (a crumbling old house that needs a lot of work to put it ...
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Tuesday, 6 September 2022

Globe trotting

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It's taken for granted nowadays that tourism and travelling around the world is completely normal, and anyone who prefers to stay at hom...
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Friday, 2 September 2022

Goodbye cycling

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The only time I've cycled regularly was between the ages of 18 and 20 when I didn't have a car and as a local journalist I needed to...
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Monday, 29 August 2022

Why a pre nup?

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Pre nuptial agreements have been around for a while, but most couples still marry without one. Are they a good idea or not? Certainly Jenny ...
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Thursday, 25 August 2022

Beyond my ken

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There are many things people do that leave me scratching my head in bewilderment. Why do people do these things? What's the great attrac...
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Sunday, 21 August 2022

Hugs and kisses

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For as long as I can remember, I've been very physically demon-strative. I love hugging and kissing and holding hands, to me it's fr...
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Wednesday, 17 August 2022

Alive and kicking

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There's a British TV drama right now called "Marriage", which depicts marriage as being boring, frustrating and claustro-phobi...
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Saturday, 13 August 2022

Enough is enough

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Why do some people think it's okay to force their beliefs or their principles onto others, along with abuse, threats and self-righteous ...
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I've known my partner Jenny for over 44 years. Now retired, I was previously a journalist, bookseller, charity worker and office administrator. I enjoy the company of my partner and friends but I'm not a wild socialiser. I love walking in the country and just quietly reflecting on life. Disillusioned with living in London, Jenny and I moved to Belfast in 2000. We're still in Belfast and we think it's a fabulous city.
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