nickhereandnow

"Sorry for being me, I don't know how to be anyone else" - Spike Milligan

Monday, 27 September 2021

Missing tips

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When Jenny and I are in a restaurant, we're always aware that tips added to a credit card payment may never reach the server but be stea...
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Thursday, 23 September 2021

Still bewildered

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Back in 2013 I listed some of the modern-day trends that I simply don't understand. Things that leave me scratching my head in bewilderm...
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Sunday, 19 September 2021

Sheer anarchy

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I lost my faith in politicians a long time ago, and this sort of thing is why - the ongoing anarchy in the Holylands area of Belfast, an are...
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Wednesday, 15 September 2021

Why fame?

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For the life of me I don't understand why so many people want to be famous. I can understand wanting to be rich and never having any mor...
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Friday, 10 September 2021

But is it true?

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I tend to assume that everything in a biography/ autobiography/ memoir must be true because they're based on real lives and real people....
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Sunday, 5 September 2021

Not so lucky

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Winning a fortune may seem like a wonderful idea, but the reality may not be so enjoyable. All sorts of unforeseen conse-quences could make ...
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Wednesday, 1 September 2021

What might have been

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When I think of my parents (both now dead), I have a strong sense of loss. But it's not the loss of what was, or what they meant to me. ...
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Saturday, 28 August 2021

Imperfect bodies

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Apparently a majority of men (53%) have negative feelings about their body image, which isn't far off the figure for women (62%). They d...
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Tuesday, 24 August 2021

Flight of folly

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I'm endlessly amazed at the dotty projects local councils get up to, quite often ignoring widespread advice that the project is dotty an...
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Wednesday, 18 August 2021

Distasteful legacies

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It's the custom to pass on your inheritance (if you're lucky enough to have one) to your offspring or other family members. Eyebrows...
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Friday, 13 August 2021

Hard to imagine

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I have a problem with novels that other people don't seem to have. I find it very hard to conjure up a vivid mental picture of the chara...
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Monday, 9 August 2021

Speech! Speech!

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Social phobias of one kind or another are very common, and one of them is fear of public speaking. That's certainly one of my own fears,...
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Thursday, 5 August 2021

Punch bag

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I know I've got a slight bee in my bonnet, but I can't help noticing that a lot of people are getting more aggressive and abusive, a...
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Sunday, 1 August 2021

Trust

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It's easy to take for granted in a relationship that your partner can be trusted - that they'll do what they say, behave the way you...
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Wednesday, 28 July 2021

The glorious past

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There are two types of nostalgia, and I don't subscribe to either of them. There's nostalgia meaning a belief in some sort of golden...
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Saturday, 24 July 2021

Armchair critics

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What really struck me as I was watching an Amy Winehouse documentary last night (she died ten years ago yesterday) was how many people happi...
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Monday, 19 July 2021

The flying ordeal

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So to continue the plane theme, it's amazing what people like us put up with in economy class when we simply can't afford anything b...
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Thursday, 15 July 2021

Casual flyers

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I've always been captivated by planes. As someone with no understan-ding at all of aerodyn-amics, I constantly marvel that these incredi...
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Sunday, 11 July 2021

A helping hand

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It's terrible getting old, people say. You've got aches and pains every-where, people don't respect you any more, you're baf...
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Tuesday, 6 July 2021

Taken for granted

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People who've been fortunate in life often take it for granted. They take their life and whatever they've achieved as the natural or...
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I've known my partner Jenny for over 44 years. Now retired, I was previously a journalist, bookseller, charity worker and office administrator. I enjoy the company of my partner and friends but I'm not a wild socialiser. I love walking in the country and just quietly reflecting on life. Disillusioned with living in London, Jenny and I moved to Belfast in 2000. We're still in Belfast and we think it's a fabulous city.
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