nickhereandnow

"Sorry for being me, I don't know how to be anyone else" - Spike Milligan

Thursday, 29 July 2010

Future perfect

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Could I really be afraid of the future? I decided to take the problem to my esteemed therapist Dr Melissa Flinch , at her luxurious consult...
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Tuesday, 27 July 2010

The groping guru

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If you thought Swami Korianda was just a wild flight of the imagination, think again. A self-proclaimed guru and healer who molested and r...
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Sunday, 25 July 2010

Fear of the future

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My regular readers will know about my fear of darkness . But it's only just dawned on me that I also have a fear of the future*. It cam...
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Thursday, 22 July 2010

Beyond vanity

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When I was a boy, paying too much attention to your appearance was regarded as unseemly vanity. Particularly in the case of women. Tarting ...
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Monday, 19 July 2010

Banning the burka (2)

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Never let it be said that I'm not open to argument. A ban on burkas and face-veils made sense to me on Saturday, but after a weekend of...
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Saturday, 17 July 2010

Banning the burka

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I have a sneaking sympathy for the Tory MP who wants to ban the burka or niqab in public because they prevent "normal dialogue with o...
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Tuesday, 13 July 2010

Budget breaks

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Like many other Brits, Jenny and I decided to have a staycation this year - we're going to Scotland rather than some exotic foreign des...
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Saturday, 10 July 2010

Forgotten life

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Can you imagine spending six years not knowing who you are, trying in vain to find out, your whole life an almost total blank? Benjaman Kyl...
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Wednesday, 7 July 2010

Bashing the boomers

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Once again some idiotic journalist is blaming the older generation (the "baby boomers") for the hard times facing the young as t...
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Saturday, 3 July 2010

Slowing down

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Being jobless, I have the luxury of being able to take my time over everything. I don't have to rush to meet deadlines, or sweat to kee...
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Wednesday, 30 June 2010

Unputdownable or unreadable?

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When is a book a good book? Is it only the literary critics who're expert enough to decide? Or is the ordinary reader's opinion jus...
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Sunday, 27 June 2010

Gender unknown

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How do you stop people treating your child in a gender-related way? Easy - you refuse to tell them whether the child is a boy or a girl. Th...
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Thursday, 24 June 2010

Sorry, no baldies

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A bald man without much body hair was told he couldn't join the Northern Ireland Police Service. Why? Because he couldn't provide ...
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Monday, 21 June 2010

Beware of the car

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Don't you love those absurd scare stories designed to make us terrified of some aspect of daily life we were never worried about before...
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Friday, 18 June 2010

All alone am I

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It seems there has been a big rise in the number of people feeling lonely. Despite all the media images of happy families and wild parties,...
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Wednesday, 16 June 2010

Bloody Sunday

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On January 30 1972, 14 people on a civil rights march in Derry, Northern Ireland, were gunned down by British Paratroopers. Yesterday, 38 y...
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Friday, 11 June 2010

Unrequited love

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Unrequited love is a painful business. You pine away secretly (or not so secretly) while the desired person shows no interest in you whatev...
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Tuesday, 8 June 2010

The road to bliss

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I'm just back from the remote Cairngorms retreat of the Sacred Order of Divine Bliss. As you know, I go there periodically for spiritua...
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Saturday, 5 June 2010

Submissive women

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When I was young and dating women, I ran into some who seemed alarmingly submissive. As I always saw women as equals, I quietly stopped dat...
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Thursday, 3 June 2010

Asking for it

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The legendary Scarlet Blue has challenged me to answer some unusual questions that will bare my soul like never before. After checking wit...
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I've known my partner Jenny for over 44 years. Now retired, I was previously a journalist, bookseller, charity worker and office administrator. I enjoy the company of my partner and friends but I'm not a wild socialiser. I love walking in the country and just quietly reflecting on life. Disillusioned with living in London, Jenny and I moved to Belfast in 2000. We're still in Belfast and we think it's a fabulous city.
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