tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post8296800166994802019..comments2024-03-28T07:49:04.960+00:00Comments on nickhereandnow: A yen for risknickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10472673041193755894noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-81496474747879352842014-02-09T23:05:36.079+00:002014-02-09T23:05:36.079+00:00Agent: True, there are risks and risks. By and lar...Agent: True, there are risks and risks. By and large, I try to avoid physical danger, but I do fancy the idea of sky diving. And I do some quite dangerous scrambling up mountainsides sometimes!Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-61126944592856431182014-02-09T22:00:32.912+00:002014-02-09T22:00:32.912+00:00There are actually different types of thrill seeki...There are actually different types of thrill seeking, so that drug users and skydivers and sex-in-public folks might not be inclined to another's sort of risk.<br /><br />I don't personally enjoy taking many risks that put me in physical danger. Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-69691736996948620592014-02-08T17:08:40.099+00:002014-02-08T17:08:40.099+00:00Grannymar: I know, various things that make you a ...Grannymar: I know, various things that make you a little fragile. You must feel frustrated sometimes that you can't frolic like a teenager!Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-4978777771928158472014-02-08T14:17:16.381+00:002014-02-08T14:17:16.381+00:00I am constantly reminded not to take risks, it mak...I am constantly reminded not to take risks, it makes for a very boring life at the moment. Yet if I take the risks, I may complicate the life of others! :(Grannymarhttp://grannymar.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-31748729270215201502014-02-07T22:21:52.803+00:002014-02-07T22:21:52.803+00:00Jenny: Could be! I could see myself doing a bit of...Jenny: Could be! I could see myself doing a bit of sky diving if I was told I had a terminal illness.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-41014336841747360832014-02-07T20:48:15.904+00:002014-02-07T20:48:15.904+00:00I sometimes wonder if people take up these risky t...I sometimes wonder if people take up these risky things partly so they won't spend their time worrying about lesser things. The charge of adrenaline, feeling scared out of your wits, because you're about to jump out of a plane, must be more pleasant than worrying you've got cancer! Jenny Woolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16881781466502273314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-63145287552054430062014-02-06T17:16:16.281+00:002014-02-06T17:16:16.281+00:00www: Indeed, I've been trying to emphasise tha...www: Indeed, I've been trying to emphasise that everyday life contains plenty of risks already! And as you say, not just the car-driving type of risk but the emotional risks of possible failure, possible rejection etc.<br /><br />What a wonderful image of a Stepford housewife!Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-4430343282945762742014-02-06T15:13:29.317+00:002014-02-06T15:13:29.317+00:00I would need "risk" more completely defi...I would need "risk" more completely defined. I've always taken risks, i.e. risk of others considering me a fool, risks of failure, risks, yes, even of success.<br /><br />Without risking I wouldn't be where I am today. And not really "me". Just some sedated suburban hausfrau canning beans in her steel embellished kitchen, plotting her new tile floor. Not that there's anything wrong with that if that's what you want.<br /><br />Not for me.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-39545103753392231632014-02-06T07:58:38.650+00:002014-02-06T07:58:38.650+00:00Ramana: Exactly. There are risks galore in daily a...Ramana: Exactly. There are risks galore in daily activities - driving, crossing the road, flying, eating peanuts, icy pavements, unhygienic cafés. But we assume it's worth taking the risk.<br /><br />Jean: I wouldn't say your life was mediocre. Risk-averse maybe!Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-61166003144960464232014-02-06T07:51:05.425+00:002014-02-06T07:51:05.425+00:00Ursula: Highly unlikely means what it says. Lots o...Ursula: Highly unlikely means what it says. Lots of everyday activities involve the "highly unlikely" possibility of death but that doesn't stop us. Driving a car (or just being in one) for instance carries a risk of death or serious injury.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-9174609577861565562014-02-06T07:42:56.847+00:002014-02-06T07:42:56.847+00:00Nope, lazy and risk-adverse here. Having a great ...Nope, lazy and risk-adverse here. Having a great time reveling in my mediocrity. Cheerful Monkhttp://cheerfulmonk.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-91667630518841196562014-02-06T07:08:06.998+00:002014-02-06T07:08:06.998+00:00I take a risk every time I walk out of my front do...I take a risk every time I walk out of my front door. I also take a risk every time I take a shower. Other than these two major daily events, I am risk averse and am most comfortable on my recliner contemplating my navel.Rummuserhttp://www.rummuser.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-20435202910797234802014-02-06T00:15:56.079+00:002014-02-06T00:15:56.079+00:00I agree with John. Some people do have a death wis...I agree with John. Some people do have a death wish. Possibly unknown to themselves. Dicing with probability. Even your own phrase, Nick, 'highly unlikely' gives it away. Highly unlikely but not completely, is it?<br /><br />UUrsulahttp://bitchontheblog.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-38221081573895391352014-02-05T22:26:39.156+00:002014-02-05T22:26:39.156+00:00John: But I wouldn't say things like sky divin...John: But I wouldn't say things like sky diving are akin to a suicide attempt. The participants don't want to die, they just want a thrilling experience in the knowledge that death is highly unlikely.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-88010686087785540572014-02-05T22:26:10.186+00:002014-02-05T22:26:10.186+00:00Susie: That's right, one of the aerial dancers...Susie: That's right, one of the aerial dancers was killed last year when she climbed a rope too quickly and it came out of its pulley. But tightrope walkers and trapeze artists are spectacular to watch.<br /><br />Liz: I've seldom had the urge to do anything seriously risky. I'd quite like to try sky diving though....Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-82076319672609032422014-02-05T21:58:44.219+00:002014-02-05T21:58:44.219+00:00There is some research that risk taking is in fac...There is some research that risk taking is in fact " parasuicidal" in nature...<br />Something I remember from my spinal injury nursing days....<br />John Going Gentlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14958171262765033946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-76470800074253526982014-02-05T20:21:49.041+00:002014-02-05T20:21:49.041+00:00Aw me too! Give me safety every time!Aw me too! Give me safety every time!Liz Hindshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04646532093872561703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-58987714843124226212014-02-05T18:11:12.471+00:002014-02-05T18:11:12.471+00:00I went to see Cirque du Soleil about six years ago...I went to see Cirque du Soleil about six years ago, and couldn't even watch. My family made fun of me.<br /><br />Sadly, I was right to be scared.<br /><br />I get more dull and boring with age.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-22955518869692078812014-02-05T18:09:35.712+00:002014-02-05T18:09:35.712+00:00Helen: True, everyday life involves quite a few ri...Helen: True, everyday life involves quite a few risks when you stop to think about it. Mostly quite minor risks though, there's not much that threatens sudden death or total catastrophe.<br /><br />Ursula: I don't think the search for adrenaline is purely a male thing. There are plenty of women looking for a bit of excitement. But I guess what often stops them doing really dangerous things is not wanting to worry their spouses or children.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-47585734153433374602014-02-05T17:11:37.740+00:002014-02-05T17:11:37.740+00:00Like Bijoux I am risk averse. However, I will, and...Like Bijoux I am risk averse. However, I will, and have to, take calculated risks. The calculation being in favour of caution, a positive outcome. No nose broken. No indignity encountered.<br /><br />My mother's brothers were hell raisers. They lived to tell the tale. Or keep shtumm about - depending on temperament.You can't take the search for adrenaline out of a man. Myself, and like your commentator, Helen Davies, I find life exciting enough as it is without adding to its risks voluntarily. But then: Who can hold it against those numbed by their daily grind to get their juices going some other way?<br /><br />You know what, Nick: It pays to be an animal. They might not philosophize. Yet they are right bang on the money, by instinct: They only expend as much energy as is strictly necessary to keep themselves and their youngsters alive.<br /><br />UUrsulahttp://bitchontheblog.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-47578567358697723442014-02-05T15:41:14.635+00:002014-02-05T15:41:14.635+00:00I like safety...I find life throws quite enough ri...I like safety...I find life throws quite enough risk my way without going out to look for it.Helen Devriesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-20665393239686937292014-02-05T15:14:13.380+00:002014-02-05T15:14:13.380+00:00Bijoux: I quite like watching crazy stunts, but I ...Bijoux: I quite like watching crazy stunts, but I do wonder at the performers' confidence (or foolishness?) in the face of such huge risks.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-40132410954164842032014-02-05T11:57:25.390+00:002014-02-05T11:57:25.390+00:00I've always been a risk averse person, except ...I've always been a risk averse person, except maybe in my late teens, early 20's. I actually don't like to even watch people doing crazy stunts on TV. No desire to see someone maim or kill themselves, I guess.Bijouxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05788630004051883635noreply@blogger.com