tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post6385996200277853604..comments2024-03-28T07:49:04.960+00:00Comments on nickhereandnow: Eating disordernickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10472673041193755894noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-53053211929544349472013-05-22T20:46:19.331+01:002013-05-22T20:46:19.331+01:00Agent: Very true. And yes, I can't begin to im...Agent: Very true. And yes, I can't begin to imagine the horror experienced by a parent whose child has done something so appalling. Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-69309888290971007692013-05-22T19:22:37.992+01:002013-05-22T19:22:37.992+01:00I deal with grim every day, it's just that the...I deal with grim every day, it's just that the way this kid went about killing was so horrific. And what a nightmare for the parents of the kids, and the mother of Kevin.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-84047255205022976102013-05-22T07:58:51.218+01:002013-05-22T07:58:51.218+01:00Agent: I had no idea people were so traumatised by...Agent: I had no idea people were so traumatised by reading Kevin. It's a pretty grim book, to be sure, but then life itself can be pretty grim....<br /><br />I agree about noisy and smelly eating, it's very inconsiderate.<br /><br />Bijoux: Unfortunately there are a lot of kids as screwed up as Kevin out there....Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-39291295966021635982013-05-22T04:37:33.585+01:002013-05-22T04:37:33.585+01:00Agent......I'm glad I wasn't alone in bein...Agent......I'm glad I wasn't alone in being traumatized by that book! I made the mistake of just skipping to the end and that was even worse!Bijouxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05788630004051883635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-87783008854443925842013-05-22T01:19:40.586+01:002013-05-22T01:19:40.586+01:00Oh my God, I found "We need to Talk about Kev...Oh my God, I found "We need to Talk about Kevin" an absolutely horrifying read. <br /><br />I think it makes sense to be attentive to when you are actually hungry, eat what and when you want and try to eat foods that are good for you most of the time. However, while I don't care if someone eats something in the street, I wish people would refrain from eating noisily in public and also not eat strong smelling things in enclosed public places like airplanes and so on. It's just rude.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-44516757192972886462013-05-21T17:56:03.708+01:002013-05-21T17:56:03.708+01:00www: Not sure food-addiction is due to body-polici...www: Not sure food-addiction is due to body-policing. Isn't it a bit more complicated than that? What about cravings for salt and sugar, for example? Or the need for "comfort food"? There are any number of factors.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-42157635704845929562013-05-21T17:05:04.382+01:002013-05-21T17:05:04.382+01:00I don't think we've got any business body-...I don't think we've got any business body-policing others, Nick. This is why food addiction stats have gone through the roof (one only has to look at any magazine or rags like Daily Mail). <br /><br />If someone has eating issues they always know it and they will get help (or not) if they feel it necessary.<br /><br />As to street-meat, we can all speak from privilege but some have no choice: no money, no home or one that is punitive or abusive, etc., or it is all they can afford.<br /><br />XO<br />WWW<br /><br />Wisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-91193044542637113412013-05-20T22:22:39.650+01:002013-05-20T22:22:39.650+01:00Liz: Why try to force a child to eat broad beans w...Liz: Why try to force a child to eat broad beans when she plainly doesn't like them? Pointless.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-32963546777352064842013-05-20T21:45:52.001+01:002013-05-20T21:45:52.001+01:00It was certainly different when we were growing up...It was certainly different when we were growing up. We ate was put in front of us - except broad beans. Except summer I argued with my gran who insisted I'd never tried them, that I had every year, and still didn't like them. I think food probably has too much of an influence on most of us, either too much or too little.Liz Hindshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04646532093872561703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-46940794884306255602013-05-20T15:23:10.039+01:002013-05-20T15:23:10.039+01:00Ramana: Oh no, you can't blame me for your gui...Ramana: Oh no, you can't blame me for your guilt, that's entirely your concern! I must say that lasagna looks totally delicious, even if it did have a very generous helping of cheese!Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-31183249052404279092013-05-20T15:19:27.976+01:002013-05-20T15:19:27.976+01:00Leah: I guess NYC has always been relaxed about st...Leah: I guess NYC has always been relaxed about street eating. When I think of New York, I always think of someone in the street munching a massive burger!<br /><br />Which bit was that? About eating what you want and stopping when you're full?Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-68994284384950100192013-05-20T15:13:21.419+01:002013-05-20T15:13:21.419+01:00Bijoux: You're right about the general lack of...Bijoux: You're right about the general lack of self-control. It's positively scary at times!<br /><br />I love Lionel Shriver's books. Kevin was the one that made her famous. I did read it all the way through, though as you say it's a disturbing read. She doesn't flinch from describing people as they are, not as we would like them to be.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-77150258998937236692013-05-20T15:01:45.846+01:002013-05-20T15:01:45.846+01:00There! You have just made me feel very guilty abo...There! You have just made me feel very guilty about my today's post!Rummuserhttp://www.rummuser.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-78176984049752228242013-05-20T13:48:33.230+01:002013-05-20T13:48:33.230+01:00Wonderful street food is now everywhere in NYC, an...Wonderful street food is now everywhere in NYC, and people eat everywhere. But I remember eating street food when I was little too, so I guess I never experienced that taboo...al fresco dining! :-)<br /><br />I think what Roses said was very sensible indeed.Leahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14061893047279652658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-76106149061932512013-05-20T13:47:00.340+01:002013-05-20T13:47:00.340+01:00Self control seems to be lacking in many areas of ...Self control seems to be lacking in many areas of life, and food is just one of them.<br /><br />Do you like Shriver's works? I really enjoyed The Post Birthday World, but the book about Kevin was so disturbing, I had to quit reading after the first few chapters.Bijouxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05788630004051883635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-18968660934465784032013-05-20T10:10:18.209+01:002013-05-20T10:10:18.209+01:00Grannymar: Goodness yes, eating an orange in the s...Grannymar: Goodness yes, eating an orange in the street is super-sinful!<br /><br />I think it wasn't so much what we ate that kept us skinny in those days, it was also the constant exercise - playing in the street rather than updating our Facebook page.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-50604384086922093812013-05-20T09:58:01.613+01:002013-05-20T09:58:01.613+01:00It was frowned upon to eat in the street, when I w...It was frowned upon to eat in the street, when I was young, I remember a nun ticking me off for eating an orange in the street!<br /><br />All our regular meals - breakfast, dinner and tea - were taken together around the family table. Beverages such as tea, and in later years coffee, punctuated the day and came with homemade cake or biscuits. Why am I not grossly overweight?Grannymarhttp://grannymar.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-19088354075841856322013-05-20T07:27:40.998+01:002013-05-20T07:27:40.998+01:00Roses: Funny how something that's seen as tota...Roses: Funny how something that's seen as totally vulgar in one society is seen as quite normal in another.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-76242018788150337942013-05-19T23:35:04.515+01:002013-05-19T23:35:04.515+01:00I'd go with what Z said.
In Trinidad, it wasn...I'd go with what Z said.<br /><br />In Trinidad, it wasn't considered rude. Given the yummy street food on offer, it's just as well.Roseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07469442580348062913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-66695749517566920682013-05-19T20:39:25.476+01:002013-05-19T20:39:25.476+01:00Z: An interesting counter-theory. I have no idea w...Z: An interesting counter-theory. I have no idea which of you is right....Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-33010060632773604032013-05-19T19:43:20.776+01:002013-05-19T19:43:20.776+01:00I think you're too kind, Roses, I suspect that...I think you're too kind, Roses, I suspect that eating in the street originally meant you bought street food, so had neither kitchen nor cook! So not to do so meant you were a cut above.Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00822383355869390919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-3980301351401114392013-05-19T17:21:28.795+01:002013-05-19T17:21:28.795+01:00John: I must admit I still don't feel comforta...John: I must admit I still don't feel comfortable eating anything substantial in the street. A chocolate bar or bag of crisps maybe. Or I might eat a sandwich in the park.<br /><br />Roses: I agree, you should just eat what you need and stop when you feel full. Most popular diets are very artificial and usually don't work. And that's an intriguing idea about not wanting to expose poverty.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-2247858203620761532013-05-19T17:05:33.945+01:002013-05-19T17:05:33.945+01:00I wonder if the whole eating in public thing was a...I wonder if the whole eating in public thing was a polite way of not rubbing poverty in peoples' faces. People who could afford to eat not showing it off in front of people who were struggling?<br /><br />I think people need to loosen up a bit about food.<br /><br />Implementing dietary regimes that goes against a person's metabolism, creating so many rules and regulations about it.<br /><br />Eat what you genuinely want, when you want it and when you're satisfied, stop.<br /><br />Learning to hear what your body is saying, rather than creating all this angst and phobias will build far better 'relationships' with food.Roseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07469442580348062913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-56994105774425315922013-05-19T16:05:55.109+01:002013-05-19T16:05:55.109+01:00My goodness..I remember my mother telling me off f...My goodness..I remember my mother telling me off for eating something in the street.... Only sweets were allowed.....<br />Chris still thinks its uncouth to scoff in publicJohn Going Gentlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14958171262765033946noreply@blogger.com