tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post3520801094050863926..comments2024-03-28T07:49:04.960+00:00Comments on nickhereandnow: Changingnickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10472673041193755894noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-85827709741593963062016-01-16T17:43:21.358+00:002016-01-16T17:43:21.358+00:00Jenny: Old people are very variable - some are ban...Jenny: Old people are very variable - some are bang up to date with everything, while others stubbornly cling to what they're familiar with. My mother's resistance to the internet makes it very hard to keep in touch with her. She often doesn't hear the landline because she's a bit deaf, but I can't email her or text her instead. Grrrr!Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-10950756186646451362016-01-16T17:30:53.593+00:002016-01-16T17:30:53.593+00:00I agree. However, I also think it is important to ...I agree. However, I also think it is important to keep up with modern ideas, which many elderly people don't - I think the reason is that it's hard to keep up with (or be bothered to keep up with) how things are constantly changing. And sometimes technology makes it hard to keep up. But having said that, one of the most memorable was open minded and very old and happy to be of a different era - what she said was still so interesting and her different perspective was fascinating. Jenny Woolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16881781466502273314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-11386156014220307272016-01-15T07:23:56.675+00:002016-01-15T07:23:56.675+00:00Keith: Valves will always be with us, ha ha! My fa...Keith: Valves will always be with us, ha ha! My father died in the pre-internet era and never had a chance to condemn this new-fangled innovation. My mother, who is 93, has never shown any interest in the internet, mobile phones, Skype or anything related. She sticks to her telly and landline, however inconvenient for the rest of the family.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-74899824065002198242016-01-14T23:27:29.194+00:002016-01-14T23:27:29.194+00:00I believe in moving with the times. My father was ...I believe in moving with the times. My father was a Radio Amateur like me and his transmitters and receivers all used valves (he built his own kit). Even until he died (2003) he would never consider using PC boards, transistors, or "interrogated circuits" as he called them, "Son, they will never catch on, valves will be with us until the end of time" he said, as he tapped away on his Morse key! I'm glad I moved on to modern electronics. Dah-dit-dit-dah!Robert Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13163819196303858927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-88408823800247922492016-01-14T21:29:47.287+00:002016-01-14T21:29:47.287+00:00Grannymar: You're incorrigible!Grannymar: You're incorrigible!Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-35635227719773262142016-01-14T21:25:42.056+00:002016-01-14T21:25:42.056+00:00I change everyday... my clothes and the way I brus...I change everyday... my clothes and the way I brush my hair! ;) * runs to hide behind the laptop!)Grannymarhttp://grannymar.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-21823931837407449452016-01-14T17:07:46.673+00:002016-01-14T17:07:46.673+00:00Ramana: In that case it will be interesting to see...Ramana: In that case it will be interesting to see what happens when I finally retire!Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-49324410480780959102016-01-14T15:42:52.489+00:002016-01-14T15:42:52.489+00:00I endorse your view completely. I am older than y...I endorse your view completely. I am older than you are and have been changing in my attitudes and sensibilities after retirement more than I changed during my working years. I also know that you CAN teach old dogs new tricks.Rummuserhttp://www.rummuser.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-56346128508733305932016-01-14T07:32:17.085+00:002016-01-14T07:32:17.085+00:00www: Me too. I've also done big u-turns on som...www: Me too. I've also done big u-turns on some of my existing opinions. I don't understand people who're so convinced of their correctness they absolutely refuse to consider alternative facts or opinions.<br /><br />Kylie: Yes, I imagine kids have a big influence on their parents' opinions, as they come to everything with a fresh mind and ask awkward questions non-stop! I'm also increasingly aware of how much research is falsified and skewed to serve someone's private agenda.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-57591989433896590922016-01-13T22:30:13.122+00:002016-01-13T22:30:13.122+00:00my kids are an indirect influence on the re-think....my kids are an indirect influence on the re-think. I've just become a lot more aware of how we are manipulated and how scientific data is falsified and where the money trails lead.<br />And yes, cancer screening is not always helpful. Again, it's a businesskyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-4282350124909983402016-01-13T22:10:24.590+00:002016-01-13T22:10:24.590+00:00Nick, to add to above, I think opinion changing is...Nick, to add to above, I think opinion changing is one of the more powerful demonstrations of flexibility in old age. I know I have 180'd some of mine in the last few years by becoming more educated and delving deeper into issues.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-40230966690234205232016-01-13T11:39:00.853+00:002016-01-13T11:39:00.853+00:00Kylie: I haven't given much thought to vaccine...Kylie: I haven't given much thought to vaccines, probably because we don't have kids (though I do have a flu jab every year). But I see there are increasing doubts about the usefulness of screening, especially cancer screening.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-92179958493711790992016-01-13T10:08:32.377+00:002016-01-13T10:08:32.377+00:00I went from being a die hard and superior pro-vacc...I went from being a die hard and superior pro-vaccine person to being quite a skeptic. It's a big change.kyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-32052997494060944652016-01-13T07:32:47.051+00:002016-01-13T07:32:47.051+00:00www: That's certainly a useful comparison. In ...www: That's certainly a useful comparison. In 2006 I hadn't yet started my present job, which has involved a lot of adaptation and ingenuity. So big changes there. I've also changed my reading habits - I'm increasingly reading American and foreign novels instead of British, as they're more eye-opening. I know many of my opinions have changed but I couldn't list them all!Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-9609179974811799452016-01-13T00:19:12.745+00:002016-01-13T00:19:12.745+00:00I think your premise is false in comparing an 8 ye...I think your premise is false in comparing an 8 year old to a 68 year old self.<br /><br />I'd much rather you compared, say, your 58 year old self to your now self. What changes in opinion, outlook, hobbies, etc.<br /><br />I like to look back every 5 years and add new explorations, either inner or outer to my bag of tricks.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-17060532430818594862016-01-12T15:06:55.934+00:002016-01-12T15:06:55.934+00:00Helen: Absolutely. It was being adaptable and read...Helen: Absolutely. It was being adaptable and ready to try something new that got me my present job.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-78950428046536332642016-01-12T14:56:46.223+00:002016-01-12T14:56:46.223+00:00I enjoy being adaptable...who knows what opportuni...I enjoy being adaptable...who knows what opportunities lie ahead?Helen Devriesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-70228691279017513552016-01-12T14:42:08.550+00:002016-01-12T14:42:08.550+00:00Heron: I think you're right, for a lot of peop...Heron: I think you're right, for a lot of people the familiar rut becomes so comfortable they don't want to leave it. You certainly seem to be ready to change if you feel the need. Me likewise. At 53, my partner and I moved from London to Belfast. At 56 I took up hill-walking. At 60, I started this blog. At 63, I started a completely new type of job for a voluntary organisation. Who knows what I might try in the next few years?Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-73120584995873581212016-01-12T14:32:33.624+00:002016-01-12T14:32:33.624+00:00I think some people get stuck in a rut and that th...I think some people get stuck in a rut and that the rut becomes comfortable. <br />Myself, I have always been of a flexible nature willing to make changes where necessary to my lifestyle. Starting with clothing - I like bright colours and fabrics that are soft. I don't though follow fashion but I do know what suits me; same with hats, for instance I look good in a beret and a broad brimmed hat but not in a cap.<br />When 50 I gave up putting sugar into my drinks because I figured that it was spoiling the flavour, at 60 I decided to restrict my alcohol intake and now to drink is a rarity. At 67 I decided to join a political party and become actively involved and what did I find? I was bashing my head against a bunch of younger fuddy duddies in the local cumman. Having been a solo activist for a number of years, I returned to that which kept my mind focussed and fully engaged.<br />Am now 73 and looking forward to making changes where I can and in finding new novelties.A Heron's Viewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06563706152609630696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-21713304968349619002016-01-12T07:52:59.779+00:002016-01-12T07:52:59.779+00:00Dave: Sounds a bit like my own father (who died in...Dave: Sounds a bit like my own father (who died in 1988, thank goodness). He was always fiercely conservative and resistant to any "new-fangled" ideas, and we had endless quarrels. I shudder to think what he would have been like at the age of 97.<br /><br />I think my mother still believes microwaves are radioactive, even though I point out that I've used them hundreds of times and I haven't yet withered into oblivion.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-46028968413231823802016-01-12T07:37:58.216+00:002016-01-12T07:37:58.216+00:00My father is now eighty, and he's still stuck ...My father is now eighty, and he's still stuck firmly in 1958 with a determined resolve to never deviate from his established way of thinking. He's completely closed off to anyone elses opinions or ideas, and has steadfastly refused to change with the times.<br />As far as he's concerned, homosexuality is unnatural and deviant, mixed race relationships are an appalling taboo, climate change is a lie, and the internet is dismissed as a worthless joke.<br />If you try to explain an idea that differs from his own set of presets, it's like talking to a brick wall.<br />I remember when I was still living with my parents and we got our first microwave oven - he refused to eat anything from it because he honestly believed the food had been made radioactive.<br />The only good thing to come from his example is that it has taught me exactly how NOT to be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-458679995393526122016-01-12T07:36:32.966+00:002016-01-12T07:36:32.966+00:00Anon: Too true about our schools. The government p...Anon: Too true about our schools. The government puts more and more emphasis on passing tests and exams rather than intelligent and critical thinking.<br /><br />Jean: Pulling the weeds and nurturing the flowers is a nice image. I think in my case it's more like changing my gardening habits to accommodate the changing seasons.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-60028134104582646312016-01-12T03:48:43.975+00:002016-01-12T03:48:43.975+00:00I'm changing all the time, but mostly it's...I'm changing all the time, but mostly it's smooth and gradual. I think of myself as a garden, and I'm always gently pulling the weeds and nurturing the flowers. We can't help but change as life goes on, and I like having a bit of say in the matter when I can. CheerfulMonkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00934008738777906970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-31842030092515882102016-01-12T02:59:04.147+00:002016-01-12T02:59:04.147+00:00I've changed over the years and will,no doubt,...I've changed over the years and will,no doubt,continue to change...but if you are brain dead to start with then you have difficulties. And our current education system doesn't help matters.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467242994126386706.post-2711278162396895732016-01-11T21:42:09.389+00:002016-01-11T21:42:09.389+00:00Rose: It's a bit of a myth that older people c...Rose: It's a bit of a myth that older people can't change. There are plenty of oldies who're quite at home with computers and smartphones, for example. You're right that people limit themselves too much, and imagine they're incapable of things they could probably get to grips with if they tried.Nicknoreply@blogger.com